May 2007


I have a friend (no names will be mentioned) who has been with this guy for about 16 years. During the last about 5 years of the relationship they have been having problems relating to a woman friend of his, who he claimed all along was JUST his friend!, now all of a sudden i get an invitation to his wedding…..for next month! and he is getting married to the “just a friend” friend!! (she is not pregnant! i asked). Now this has thrown everybody, all the friends and family, as he was kinda sorta still in a relationship with my friend too..(and i bet he still loves her)..now over the years (cause he is my friend too), i had begged him to leave her alone if he knew he wasn’t serious about her…….anyway now my girlfriend is in a state, going through shock and disbelief and has sworn never again to trust another man (he was her first and only boyfriend) calling men all sorts of names etc etc etc, i try to tell her she will get over it and that eventually it wont matter much and that one day she WILL love again…….but for now she not hearing that……..i kinda had a similar occurence in my life many years ago, as there was a guy i was with for about 10 years and everybody had thought our wedding was a done deal, then we started having an “on again” “off again” relationship……eventually i heard from his brother that he was getting married because some girl was pregnant for him and even though we were in a “off again” state, i cudnt talk to him for a while. After 8 yrs of his marriage and 3 kids later, he is got divorced, but way way way before that we had gotten to a point where we were could talk, without me feeling anything at all. So i speak from exeprience when i tell her that she will move on and the day will come when it doesnt matter……who knows, she may be much better off and meet a much nicer guy!!!…….But as some of my friends have been saying this kind of behavior from men will casue any woman to be turned off men for life!!!!!! The average women is just not as cold as most men!!!!! 

Excerpts from a beatutiful mothers day email I got….I keep telling people never fully appreciated my mother until I had my first child!

“Somebody said it takes about six weeks to get back to normal after you’ve had a baby;
That Somebody doesn’t know that once you’re a mother, “Normal,” is history

Somebody said you learn how to be a mother by instinct
That Somebody never took a three-year-old shopping.

Somebody said you don’t need an education to be a mother.
That Somebody never helped a fourth grader with math, english, science, social studies…etc..etc..

Somebody said the hardest part of being a mother is labor and delivery.

That Somebody never watched her “baby” leave for the first day of kindergarden.

Somebody said your mother knows you love her, so you don’t need to tell her.
That Somebody isn’t a mother.”

HAPPY MOTHERS’ DAY TO ALL – Yeah!!! Yeah!!! I know some of you are not mothers yet but guess what? – You have mothered other people’s children so nuff nuff blessings as well.

Great show, gave up going to the play strength of a woman, just to watch grey’s anatomy…..(did i mention that i need a life)

What up with Meredith?? She cant be shutting Dereck out like that????? The romantic in me wants them to make it work, although it makes for better tv to have them in trouble!
Poor Callie, although, I do want her to find out about Izzie for sure!!!!
Is Karev in love with Rebecca????
We need a love interest for the chief!
Whats the deal with these mountaineers??!!??

Rooting for Melinda on AI, but to be honest Jordin will have more appeal to the younger set who i think are the ones that buys cd’s more…..

I have made a promise to myself not to get hooked on any more tv shows….I feel like I cant miss an episode! Lucky for me, these are the only two I am hooked on!

TGIF to all!!! not that I have a lot planned….but at least no work tomorrow..

Got this from Spice’s site, thought I wud give it a go! I shudda picked a day when I wud have had something more exciting to report on what I did last nite!!!!!!

Two Names You Go By:
1. Marylou 2. Poo (Big Grin)

Two Things You are Wearing Right Now:
1. Black Bra 2. Black undies

Two Things You Want in a Relationship
1. Trust and Respect 2. Honesty (Is that three things?)

Two of Your Favorite Things to Do
1. Play dominoes/ spades/kalooki (Big grin) 2. Hiking in the mountains/ Exploring the countryside

Two Things You Want Very Badly at the Moment:
1. To win the lotto 🙂 2. To win the lotto 🙂

Two Pets You Had/Have
1 Benji (my very first dog), (Jinx my current dog) 2. Two budgies – no names for them!

Two Things You Did Last Night:
1. Watched American Idol 2. Walked the hill twice! I need a life!!!

Two Things You Ate Today
1. Cereal. 2. Red Peas soup:

Two Longest Car Plane Rides:
1.Kingston to LA 2. And back!

Two Favorite Holidays:
1. Christmas 2. All the others which give a day off from work!

Two Favorite Beverages
1. Water – I am trying psyche myself into believing this 2. Baileys